FAQs

  • Like most people who enjoy this world within a world, I am insatiably curious. I took time in 2023 to indulge in one of my OTHER great passions: learning. I’m thrilled with the results! I didn’t bid farewell to Molly, publicly or privately, because I know myself: I enjoy this. I find it fascinating, and I find it pleasurable. Now that my world involves commitment in other spheres I enjoy the time I have here even more! Thank you so much for your interest in me whether it is new or based on previous esteem.

  • When I went on sabbatical (-ish) I experimented with the phrase “an abundance of caution” and well, evidently you can’t get everything in life back. It’s ok! I will make stupid jokes on my new accounts.

  • I am based in vibrant New York City, and can come to any upscale hotel room or residence. If you would prefer me to find us a space to meet I can arrange a discreet and luxurious accommodation. The cost will be paid with the deposit when the date is confirmed.

  • Absolutely. My carry-on is never fully put away, and my passport always at hand. I would love to meet you anywhere in the world.
    I’m happy to travel up and down the eastern corridor for dates of 4 hours or longer, the continental US for dates of 6, and the rest of the world priced bespoke. Please enquire for your specific location. If you’d rather a tip when I’m near sign up for my newsletter at the bottom of this page.

  • I love the little rituals of life, and especially those of getting ready to meet a friend! Putting on a favorite playlist, taking time with my lingerie… it’s all part of the magic of connecting. I love cleanliness, in both me and everyone else. I shower right before we meet to put myself in the right mood: being sparkling fresh is a side benefit.

    I’m told I read taller than my 5’8. If you’d prefer me to dress very casually or in flats feel free to let me know, otherwise I will be sleekly appropriate for wherever we’re headed, Champs-Élysées to the Cyclone. If your dream date involves a special wardrobe please do let me know! As I am a minimalist I may ask you send a gift card so I can make sure to embody the fantasy to perfection.

  • The city is messy, as is life - if you can’t shower right before we rendezvous I welcome you to do so when we meet. Additionally, never ever has any person said, “brushing my teeth before kissing a beautiful woman was a waste of my time or effort.”

    Beyond that, you needn’t worry: if you are a gentleman to the waiter we will have a wonderful time.

  • I know we are both busy people: sometimes things come up! I understand. As the hours that I may devote to this world are finite I have a cancellation policy that lets me set aside the time for our date without concern.

    On deposits:

    • I ask a 25% deposit for dates in NYC

    • I ask for a 50% deposit, plus business class tickets for FMTY dates.

    On cancellations:

    • For dates in NYC cancelling up to 5 days ahead rolls the deposit forward to any rescheduled date. I may amend this person to person if reschedulings become endemic.

    • Within 5 days I will need a new deposit to schedule a date.

    • When travelling to you for a FMTY date, cancellations within 5 days of our date will forfeit the deposit, and cancellations within 24 hours or less will require the full fee for the booking.

    • If I cancel for any reason (very rare) I will refund your deposit immediately.

  • I am truly pleased to meet anyone of any gender! Be sure to inquire if you would like to meet me with one of my current crushes.

    Please note, in the interest of parity, the rate for each person is always matched to that of the higher ladies rate.

  • While a gift is never required I am in no way immune to the pleasure of a sweet surprise, and I have an effusive style of thanks! For ideas and themes my wish lists are great inspiration.

  • I am a person who likes life and people so any plans you make are sure to delight me.

    I revel in all live music: from classic blues (New Orleans is always a good idea) to Summer Stage, Levon Helm’s barn to Carnegie Hall's entire program.

    My athleticism keeps me hungry and I have an adventurous palate. We can tease our appetite with oysters, bubbles and the skyline; savor candle lit eye contact in an intimate bistro, count stars (Michelin) in a haute temple of cuisine- or risk it all for a great food truck. 

    If you’d rather stay outside: a leisurely bike ride around Central Park, a long glorious pedal along the Seine, or a hand in hand wander towards a cocktail is sublime with the right company.

    Farther afield: what have you always wanted to try? Dive the Maldives? Charter a bare boat in Croatia? Bike the length of Vietnam? You’ll find me a resourceful traveler with a sunny side up outlook on every beautiful day. I’d love to share my warmth with you.

  • It turns out a lot of travel, from business to bucket list, is better when you have someone to share it with. Along with memories of tourist sites or boardrooms perhaps you’d like to keep mental snapshots of moonlit laughter and curves under thin silk? I’m happy to hop a flight to make that a reality!


    I will arrange my own transportation to you and include that and any associated costs in my figure.


    A non-refundable deposit of 50% secures the date.


    I take 1-3 hours for myself each day to exercise, catch up on my correspondence from family and friends, stretch my legs- and my imagination. This is good for both of us! Nothing like a fully charged social battery to make time together sweeter.

    I sleep 7 hours a night and I am a full and unrepentant coffee addict: unless we are lost in the Andes I need a little caffeine in the morning

  • I’ve given this a lot of careful thought. The eyes truly are windows to the soul and I understand that you would want to see them. In addition, I have been told that my face is one of my best qualities! I have a couple specific goals that, as much as I would like for it to be different, will be harder for me to reach if I am face out. I respect not wanting to see me without seeing my face first. I will never argue with anyone about that criteria. I hope that you will see fit to not argue with me about the decision I have made.

  • I’ve been told a blonde Allison Brie. I've also gotten:

    • Monica Vitti

    • Keri Russell

    • Amy Adams

    • Daisy Buchanan but nice (brutal!)

    • A Danish war correspondent who is about to have a passionate affair (... ok?)

    • Girl with a Pearl Earring (She also is a blonde with blue eyes: I guess)

    • If Bill Murray was hot and didn't look at all like Bill Murray (I'll take it!)

    • "You have Miley Cyrus's ass." Thanks! Peloton, weights and yoga, baby

  • I have the facility (or bad habit!) of being deeply interested in people. If you feel comfortable talking to me about yourself, we will never lack for subject. What makes you tick? What memories do you treasure? How do you consider the big questions of being a human? If you prefer not to deep THAT dive over the first cocktail, I am an amateur cinephile and nerd, and regularly update my social media with what I have been watching and reading. Many a sparkling exchange has begun with a shared enthusiasm!

  • My other career is gig to gig, so some months I have many responsibilities external to this sexy little world, and some I’m a bit more free. Months where I am otherwise occupied I limit myself to a few delicious afternoons or evenings, where a meal or an outing thrums with anticipation and slides into bliss. When I can be more flexible, I indulge myself more;)

  • If you’ve come this far and you like what you see, pop over to my contact page and tell me a little about yourself! I cannot tell you how much I appreciate a thoughtful introduction to you and your mind and how you think: I am eager to form of you the best first impression. XOXO 💋